I was shocked, that after just 15 minutes after arriving in Omak I had a date set up with a girl who I thought most certainly must be the prettiest girl in town. Things hadn’t been going very well for me in the dating department back home, so needless to say I was very excited and more than a little nervous.
Back then I didn’t know anything about Stealth Attraction, or Dr David’s Desire System, or any of the other dating guides out there that can show you how to attract and hook up with women. Nope, I was on my own, left to my own devices to try to figure out the best way to woo this young beauty.
Listen, if you ever find yourself having just asked your crush or some dream girl you just met out for your very first date, I know it can be nerve-wracking. The trick is to be absolutely resolute about getting the entire thing perfect from start to finish, and focus on that rather than focusing on your nerves.
The first thing to do, I’ve learned, is to conduct proper and adequate research on what sort of date would be the most to her liking. Do your best to find out what her interests are and then figure out what kind of activities would jive best with her personality. These days this can be accomplished easily my taking a quick look at her social media accounts, as these are often very telling. You can also try to inquire with her family and friends if possible. If you cannot get access to any of the aforementioned info, just try to be creative and plan something more than just the standard, boring, dinner and a movie.
A couple great ideas are to either take her hiking or out for a picnic on the beach. If you think she’s the artsy type, why not pay a visit to an indie film theater or an art gallery or hipster gig? The possibilities are endless. Just be sure that there will be sufficient time to sit down and get to know one another in an appropriate setting as after all, that is the entire point of the date: to become acquainted with each other.
Unfortunately for me however, I didn’t know any of this stuff about planning the perfect date. Instead, I decided to take her to the local diner for an early supper. Luckily however, despite my poor planning, the date was not a complete disaster. I’ll share more details on how things went in my next post.
Here’s a video of a girl (I think is pretty cute) sharing her thoughts for how guys should plan a date: